About Us
Our Story
STAND BY ME, LLC was born from lived experience, fierce advocacy, and a deep belief that every person deserves to be seen, valued, and included.
Kate and her husband, Bruce, became dedicated advocates while navigating the school system with their daughter, Sarah. Along the way, they encountered barriers that required persistence, collaboration, and a willingness to challenge the status quo. Together, they worked to ensure Sarah had access to the support, inclusion, and opportunities she deserved.
Their advocacy led to meaningful changes - impacting not only Sarah’s experience, but helping create more inclusive pathways for other students and families in their community.
Persistent advocacy has the power to create real, lasting change.
We use the term differently abled intentionally. Individuals are not defined by deficits, but by their abilities, contributions, and unique ways of experiencing the world. People who are differently abled bring valuable perspectives that enrich our communities and deserve to be meaningfully included. As Kate shares, “It’s about creating opportunities and helping to build someone’s life.”
What began as two parents advocating for their daughter has grown into a trusted agency with a clear mission - to stand alongside individuals and families, fostering independence, connection, and a true sense of belonging.
As Sarah approached adulthood, a new gap became clear. When individuals transition out of youth and school-based services - particularly between the ages of 18-21 and beyond - many experience a sudden loss of structure, connection, and opportunity. Yet this stage of life is just as critical.
We believe that a meaningful life is built through community, purpose, and connection. That includes opportunities to build relationships, participate in community life, and engage in meaningful work - on each person’s own terms and aligned with their goals.
Mission, Vision & Values
Mission Statement
To provide differently-abled people exceptional support in all areas of activities of daily living to maximize their level of function and independence in their homes and in the community.
Vision Statement
Together building friendship, community and a full life!
our Values
Compassion
We take the time to listen, understand, and respond with care that truly meets each person’s needs.
Integrity
We follow through on our commitments and build trust through our actions.
Advocacy
We are fierce advocates for the underrepresented—standing up, speaking out, and standing alongside those we support.
Community
We foster connection, inclusion, and a true sense of belonging.
We’re grateful to be part of a community with so many incredible organizations and businesses that create opportunities, connection, and inclusion.
We’re proud to support and partner with groups that make a positive impact for the individuals and families we work with.
Businesses We Love to Support
Some of the amazing organizations and local businesses we love to support include:
Capernaum Young Life – Lake Oswego
Common Grounds – Lake Oswego Adult Social Group
Down Syndrome Network Oregon (DSNO)
*** Every Body Athletics (EBA)
Firehouse Elite Gym
Hoop.Camp
Miss Hannah’s Gourmet Popcorn
MHKC | Mount Hood Kiwanis Camp
Pawsitivity Pet Supply Store
PHAME
Sarah Bellum’s Bakery
Voices Unlimited
*** W.A.G.-SNAX: Where Ability Grows
*** We sponsor these organizations.